7 Years + You're Not There

Meant to be here, but not. That is ok too, everyone has their own choices. What made it worse, is if choices were removed for whatever reasons.

7 Years - This song itself, when you hear it, it seems to talk about getting married, have kids etc. But to me the deeper meaning is you don't need to. Or perhaps I should say, getting married for the sake of having kids, does not guarantee you a better life. On the flip side, even if you are gay, with or without kids, married or single, it doesn't really matter. The first step is - are you with someone that actually cares about you. Let's pause on that one.

For example, you can be married and to be with someone who you aren't compatible with (especially if gay people were forced to marry a female), it sorts of ruining both of them to be honest. Why did they do it? I could only think of the society itself, the pressure from others, peers, for whatever reasons - even parents? How sad is this? Let's say they stuck out the marriage and finally got kids....Do you think those kids would be happy? Maybe maybe not. Even straight couples can't guarantee their kids will grow up liking them anyway. Life is mysterious, if people are treating people with kindness / respect / love, does it matter who is who, what is what? I love who I love, I like what I like, I won't even need to spread hate to those I dislike.....

If being together is causing dramas, even because from others. Maybe it is best to let go. It is not your fault, if the society is like this. Because, it is an abomination in itself, if people are going to spread hate. The story didn't change, it is just the reason might be very different to what others have known. Go back to the initial of the references, the spreading hate itself is already against it. And therefore, wait for whatever else is coming, because I know, karma is indeed a bitch. That's why I live how I live, I don't need to lie about it, and that makes it real. Whatever that is causing trouble - I can only leave it to karma.

When I am alone (even when I don't want to), I know, there will be drinks with me. At least it helps to relief my pain, so I can extend my life a bit longer. Pain killer, so I can be numb. Numb enough to endure this a bit longer. A bit of hope exists to see another day, and hopefully it gets better.

PS: Blindfold - you can't see because when wisdom goes, it goes. If someone who cares about you, even is one way, in the end, it is that person who leaves. So you can enjoy the rest and to walk the other journey.

#translator #inadifferentway #abetterwayforall