#322 - Vergiss Mich

Lately, things just very different, day by day. Even within a day, my feelings & emotions can just shift from one end to the other.... obviously within reasons...

I wonder how often we just get surrounded / living a life just like this. Like hearing people saying something (negative), and later on find out it is completely the opposite. We humans tend to react in the first instance, which is kind of a natural way to dealing with things. Some of the personality traits also cover that, must work out something to do or it will get on their nerves. But some people may just sit / sleep on it, react a bit slowly... what appears to be idle, may be quite different in their heads, formulating different scenarios / outcomes / solutions or any kind of relevant stuff....

This sort of scenarios actually can happen quite often in the work environment, I observed that as a manager in my former roles and it shaped me how I perceive things. The quickest one, doesn't mean the best... perhaps a diversed team is probably more capable than just 1 single superstar. If the team is indeed works in sync, I think it would be less likely to come up something that needs to be completely backtracked.

In life, some of the things, we can backtrack, can repair through time.

But to people, we can't change the past and history. Words can attack an individual and cause damage easily to one and another. Some pain / hurt may never heal and remains permenantly in one's heart.

Forgive / forget?

This is a very hard topic... The truth is important, it probably enable us to forgive, and once that happens, maybe we can "forget" the pain and move on, but not to forget the important essences like the meaning / lession within.

What would be the best way to move on, for losing our love ones? Do we ever forget?

Do we remember the best times and be able to treasure those precious memories / moments?

Do we try to find the flaws within, and make it easier for us to forget?

Do we ever stop loving someone truly?

Do we regret and wanting to have more time, only when it is too late and it's gone?

AI may be able to help but I do not think it can replace the real one in the future.... It is just not the same to me.... How about you?